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Do you love TD so much you wish you could spend even more time here?  Do you love dancing but happen to be a starving artist, poor student, or unemployed worker? Are you fascinated by your dance studio but antsy to learn more about the behind-the-scenes work that goes into operating it?  Ok, probably not that last one.  But if you fall into either of the first two categories, you will be happy to learn about TD’s new WORK STUDY program.

Here’s how it works:

1 – TD student volunteers for a weekly 2-3 hour shift.

2 – For every 24 hours worked, TD student may redeem for an 8 class package…for FREE.

3 – Well, that was easy!
Here’s the not-so fine print:
1 – Hours are based on TD’s schedule – work study participants may choose to work whenever they please within TD’s needed time slots.
2 – Work study participants are not paid staff.
3 – Work study participants are chosen at the discretion of studio owners.
Here are the perks:

1 – Work study participants receive a 30% discount on boutique items (may make purchases only for self)

2 – Free classes!
3 – Be a part of the amazing, talented, one-of-a-kind team that makes TD the raddest studio on the planet.

In reference to our new program for sharing the TD goodness, here’s a special, sappy, sentimental message from Studio Co-owner Sarah B. Sills:

When I was a little girl, my sister and I liked to occasionally call upon the gracious powers of an imaginary entity we referred to simply as “The Good Fairy”.  One of us would be surprised by a completed chore or maybe a favorite sticker or piece of candy.  Beside it would be a note that said “from The Good Fairy”.  We each knew that The Good Fairy was really just each other, but we loved the intrigue of pretending to be blessed by a mysterious, altruistic being.  This year I am resurrecting The Good Fairy…and she has traveled all the way from my childhood home to Twisted Dance Studio.

Here’s how the Good Fairy Program works:

1 – You have a dance sister or brother at TD who deserves a treat:  perhaps you owe her/him a favor; perhaps he/she has had a crappy time at work; perhaps she/he has been having financial difficulties; perhaps there is an impending birthday or anniversary.  The possibilities are endless: your friends are awesome and always deserve special treatment!

2 – Unbeknownst to your friend, you sneak into our office and submit a ninja-like payment to a TD staffer.

3 – Your friend receives the happy message from TD that they have credit awaiting them the next time they purchase classes, workshops, tickets to events, or items from the boutique.

4 – Your karma increases by leaps and bound and your friend’s happiness level does the same!  You can choose to keep the anonymity or let the cat of the bag.  TD staffers will remain mum!

A native of New York, Kim Burke is the wife of Terrell Hayes, mother to Lowell, Paisley, and countless others, as well as a mentor to scores of students at Guilford College. Her favorite foods include food, and her favorite recent book is “Why Food Kills.” Notice a theme there? Dancing saves her.

What classes do you take at Twisted Dance? I take mostly intermediate [bellydance] classes, but occasionally throw in a beginner’s class. I have good intentions of trying all the classes…does that count? [We say yes, it counts :) ]

What do you value and enjoy most about being part of the TD community? I value the diversity in the TD community. I don’t feel judged because I am overweight. TD gives me opportunity to forget that my body sometimes fails me. I can focus on my body in positive ways, communing with friends. I can also escape from being sick [with cancer].

How has your experience been with Malaika, TD’s cabaret student troupe? What have you gained from performing publicly? I have enjoyed Malaika. I have been a performer all of my life and it is great to be on stage again. It brings me great joy, especially since I can do it with Paisley by my side.

What’s your favorite costume piece? My favorite costume piece is my peacock bra. It truly was a labor of love sewing hundreds of individual feathers on. I love the colors and absolutely everything about it.

Imagine you’re stuck alone on a deserted island. You can only have three items with you. What would those items be? Three items I would take to a desert island are a book entitled “How to Survive on a Deserted Island,” a bottle of wine to facilitate memory, and another bottle of wine to forget.

In the light of day, TD student Amy Brown is the Director of eLearning at GTCC. When you walk into her office, it’s not uncommon to see her talking on the phone, emailing and IMing all at the same time. Outside of work (and dance), she is either: hiking in the woods at BurMill Park (she loves to run down the bike ramps shouting at the top of her lungs); pretending that she knows what she’s doing in her garden; talking/playing with her niece, McKenna, and nephew, Ty, in Atlanta on Skype (“If you make them laugh, then nothing else matters”); preparing her life for adoption (she’s been trying to become a mom for over four years, one of the most difficult journeys of her life so far); or practicing Pilates (for the last 6 years). She loves her birthday (May 17);  for her 50th birthday, (yes, she has some years to plan) she hopes to coordinate a backwards parade in Country Park. Her favorite sewing implement is a stapler (“Seriously. Nothing is faster when the hem in your pants just gives up”).

What classes do you take at Twisted Dance?
Yoga, Intermediate Belly Dance, Tai Chi, Self Defense.

Why did you start taking classes at Twisted Dance?
As you can see from my profile, I don’t live in the present tense in my daily life. I needed something to force me to focus into the present while making me move. My body changed in ways I didn’t like thanks to fertility treatments. I needed something to get my body back. And God knows, I never need a reason to shake my backend.

What do you like most about classes at Twisted Dance?
My pals are there and the classes are fun. I love surprising myself about what I can do.

What goals (fitness, personal, or otherwise) have classes at TD enabled you to meet?
I came for fitness reasons. I had weight to lose and abs to find. I don’t have a six-pack (nor want one), but I have some serious lines in my belly. Plus you learn a lot about yourself dancing in front of a mirror every week. You learn to like your own jiggle.

The zombie apocalypse is upon us. What’s your first line of defense?
Balance, Jab, Punch, Kick, Duck, Punch, Run. (If you came to Self Defense class, you would get that.)

By Sarah “Sarasvati” Sills

This week as I worked on my federal tax return, I was once again stumped by the box requiring me to fill in my occupation.  It seems like the answer to that question should be some sort of activity for which I receive monetary remuneration.  At this point the only income I have is a small paycheck for the part-time bookkeeping I do for my Dad’s business.  But that didn’t seem very occupation-y.

I considered “homemaker,” but I changed my mind as images of corduroy jumpers and comfortable loafers flashed through my mind.  Besides, I feel that being a stay-at-home mother is more something I am, not something I do.  And I don’t actually stay at home that much, so it seems like a misleading name to attach to myself.

Owning a dance studio seems like a legitimate activity for fulfilling the “occupation” question, but I don’t feel like a business owner.  Yes, my role involves aspects of accounting and human resources and marketing and advertising…but really the only part of studio ownership that concerns me is the instruction.  My partner and I started this business just so that we and our friends would have a place to dance; therefore, I feel silly calling myself an entrepreneur, when I feel like “dancer” better defines me.

I sat with my fingertips hovering over the keyboard, tossing around words in my head.  Bookkeeper?  Homemaker?  Business Owner?  Dance Instructor?  Performer?  Miracle Worker?  Finally I decided that the IRS could just call me if they really wanted to know – my occupation can’t be squeezed into their box.  So I left the box blank.

I think a lot of belly dancers, especially ones who are actively teaching and performing, might struggle from time to time with the constant identity fluctuations.  In full makeup and costume, I am Sarasvati – confident, fit, and fun.  On the couch in my fuzzy pants, I am Mama and Wifey, sleepily taking care of chores and making googly eyes at the baby.  Behind the desk at the studio I’m Boss Lady, sorting cash, tracking forms, and brainstorming advertising ideas.  On the studio dance floor I’m just plain Dancing Sarah, having a good time with my friends, trying to teach a thing or two and learn a thing or two.

The best way I have found for coping with the occasional mental vertigo caused by constantly switching roles is just to live in the moment.  When I cross the threshold from the office at the studio to the dance floor, I try to make a conscious decision to focus only on dance – I am not allowed to worry about bank statement reconciliations or class attendance rates.  And when I’m back home reading Tumble Bumble to the baby, I’m not allowed to worry about whether my dance class plans are getting boring or too easy – it’s just me and the fuzzy-headed squirmy thing in my arms.  And when I’m crunching the numbers, I’m not allowed to worry about whether the baby is behaving for his dad or whether my next piece of choreography will work out.  And so the cycle goes, from one “occupation” to another.

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Sarasvati is the co-owner of Twisted Dance Studios, member of Torque Bellydance, and all-around Purveyor of Awesomeness

By Melanie “Nezumi” Mounger

I have never seen a bellydancer dance like that!

This is what I hear frequently from friends and relatives who are uninitiated to the world of bellydance after they view one of my solo performances.  My style of bellydance is Fusion, and I use a lot of pops and locks when I dance.  I am always glad when I get to explain to people that bellydance is a lot more than just the Egyptian style dancer they may have seen at a restaurant. Don’t get me wrong — I love the classical styles, but I choose to dance a style that is a better suited to my personality. That is why I love bellydance: you can truly make it your own.

I started out dancing cabaret style but found that it was just not for me; so I was off to Tribal fusion classes and it was a much better fit. When I started performing solos, I really found my niche with the popping and locking.  It is the style that I really love to dance and I have been very lucky to know and associate with dancers that support all forms of bellydance.

I love and appreciate all forms of bellydance — a beautiful dancer is a beautiful dancer.  Just because I choose not to dance in a particular style doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy watching others dance that style. I am just so grateful that bellydance is a form that allows for individuality.   Even classic dancers will have their own style: they may do more spins/toss their hair more/do more hip work, or whatever else that can make the dance their own and their personality shine.

So, after I’m done explaining to my friend/relative how my style is still bellydance, I tell them that bellydance is not exclusive; it is inclusive and they should take a beginner class so they can find their own style.   Everyone is welcome, no matter what your fitness level.  It’s all about finding the best part of yourself and letting it have some fun!

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Nezumi is a long-time student of Twisted Dance, professional soloist and performer with Torque Bellydance

So.

You’re thinking about taking a bellydance class, but you’re also thinking of reasons not to.  While likely based in reality, these reasons are ultimately excuses: excuses for not doing something for yourself, excuses for avoiding an activity that might actually help you work through some of those excuses.  As one of the beginner bellydance instructors at Twisted Dance, I’m going to address the excuses I hear most often because (a) I am one of those people who put off bellydance for a long time ( a year between the time I began thinking of attending until I set foot in a class) so I know how you feel, but (b) as a current bellydance instructor, I want you to feel differently.

Excuse #1: I’m too tired to go after work or I can’t go because I get out of work too late.

If you work an 8-5, it’s hard to drag yourself to a bellydance class.  However, bellydance can help to take your mind off of the stress that is inevitably a part of any job.  Bellydance removes you from the outside world, helps you forget about your worries, and trains you to focus on your body.  You learn to use muscles you’ve never consciously used before, you move around to some great music you’ve likely never heard before, and you’ll meet other students who have come to the class for the same thing.  I will say that most of my current beginner students are 8-5ers with a lot of stress and anxiety in their lives.  They have stiff shoulders and necks from sitting in front of computers all day long.  When they start coming to class, they seem a little shy and nervous.

I have several students who have been taking my beginner’s class for over a year now.  None of them have any inclination to move up to intermediate classes or to perform; they come to class for the exercise, the camaraderie, and possibly the goofy asides that I make about everything.  Since they are regulars, they come into the studio, completely bypass me, and start talking to their fellow students.  I love that for a lot of reasons, but mainly because I see that it gives them a break from their usual grind and a community of people who are looking for the same thing.  They might come in looking tired, stressed, or unhappy, but they leave smiling, laughing, and sweating (in a good way).  If that’s not a reason to try bellydance, then I don’t know what is.

As far as work schedules go, remember that Twisted Dance holds four different bellydance classes on different days and times.  Some are later than others—and we even have one on Sunday evening!—in order to accommodate as many student schedules as possible.

Excuse #2: I don’t have rhythm / am too uncoordinated / never taken dance before.

You’re probably not as uncoordinated as you think.  Yes, really.  And even if you are, you can be taught.  Yes, really.  Regardless of the instructor, the beginner classes at Twisted Dance focus on technique and drill in order to help you build muscle memory, which can improve your “coordination issues” over time.  Even better is that as we drill in time to music, your sense of rhythm is heightened and you can begin to hear things in music (not just “bellydance” music) that you’ve never noticed before.  You don’t have to be a professionally trained musician to develop an ear for these things.  You just have to be open to believing that you can.

No dance background?  No problem!  Not all of us have extensive, formalized dance training.  My personal dance background before I discovered bellydance was not exactly what you’d call “extensive” or “formalized”: I had been exposed to one year of third-grade jazz, tap, and ballet and a whole lot of drunken club dancing from ages 18-21.  We instructors at Twisted Dance will give you all the background you need to execute moves safely and fluidly, so please don’t let this keep you from trying it out!

Excuse #3: I don’t have the right body type / don’t want to show my belly / don’t feel comfortable with my body

Let me first say that labeling this an excuse is at best misleading and at worst dismissive.  Body image poses very real problems to a lot of folks, problems that bellydance alone will not solve.  Twisted Dance instructors are very aware of and sensitive to this issue.  But I want to reassure you of something: bellydance is often misunderstood as a “dance of seduction” and because of this, many people believe that individuals need to have particular body types to perform it.  This is not the case (not in terms of being a dance of seduction and certainly not in terms of one’s need for a “right” body type to perform it).  Take a look at the Twisted Dance instructor’s page and you’ll see that we represent very different types of bodies.  Take a look at regional bellydance performers and instructors and you’ll see an even greater range of body types.  Twisted Dance operates on the belief that anyone can learn this dance—any person from any walk of life, of any body type, of any age, sex, race, or gender—and we don’t just talk the talk.

You do not have to show your belly in class.  Since bellydance is a core-driven dance, it can make it easier to see how you’re performing certain moves, but it is not required.  Most of my students keep their midriffs covered in class and do just fine.

I cannot guarantee you’ll feel completely comfortable with your body after one class (or even one whole series), but I can tell you how bellydance helped me become more at peace in my own skin.  When I began dancing, I had just hit that age in the mid-twenties where your metabolism slows to a near-crawl and everything grows out rather than up.  It was the first time that I noticed my body changing in ways I couldn’t control, something that made me feel emotionally out of control.  Then I met my first teacher and began taking classes.  She wasn’t what most Americans think of as the ideal body type these days—quite the opposite, actually—and she moved with such grace and confidence that I couldn’t believe it.  Eventually, what she taught me in class and by example made me feel less self-conscious and less uncomfortable (both physically and emotionally).  Bellydance really is the way that I began to accept that this was my body; it helped me to learn that I could take control of my body, rather than let my perception of it control me.

Am I completely over this?  No.  I have my moments.  But I deal with it much better than I did ten years ago and in much healthier ways.  As an instructor now, I genuinely hope that my students can see that and learn to accept themselves, just as I learned from my own beginner instructor.  I know for a fact that the other beginner instructors at Twisted Dance feel the same way.

Now that we’ve aired them out, please don’t let the excuses keep you from trying bellydance classes at Twisted Dance!  For information on the classes we offer and upcoming events, visit our website and sign up for our newsletter or check us out on Facebook.

On September 10, 2011, Torque Bellydance and Twisted Dance Studios will co-host the 3rd Annual Project Shimmy, a world dance show to benefit Triad Health Project.  THP is a local organization that provides practical and emotional support to individuals living with HIV/AIDS, to their loved ones, and to those at risk for HIV/AIDS.  Although THP holds several successful fundraisers each year, all it takes is a visit to their home office to see how much they do with so little financial help.  We began our benefit show as a way to show our appreciation to this wonderful organization and to use our talents (and the talents of world dance performers statewide) to give back to our local community in a meaningful and entertaining way.

Project Shimmy has been highly successful in terms of both our fundraising and showcasing efforts, but putting it together has never been easy.  For us, there’s a difficult balance to maintain between production and performance that many audience members and novice dancers don’t recognize right away. So much has to happen before the show, and there’s always that pesky, real non-belly dance life that intrudes when we least want it to.  If we make it look effortless at all, then we have effectively lived up to the title of “performers.”

Since we’re in the thick of preparing for this year’s show, we thought we’d give you a behind the scenes peek into Project Shimmy.  There’s actually a lot more to it than could be represented in a blog post, but we hope that other dancers or studios hoping to host a benefit will find this general outline useful and that it will bring a little insight into what local artists, not just bellydancers, can do on a non-existent budget.

Planning and Basic Production

Preparations have to begin much earlier than a couple of months before the show.  It’s a good idea to choose a date for the show nearly a year in advance, and spend at least 6 months working on preparations consistently prior to the show date.  In order to facilitate the long-term planning, we assign members of Torque with particular responsibilities that they work on leading up to the show (performer liaison, production manager, publicity and donation solicitation, and so on).  Although we all lend a hand in each area, it’s helpful to have a point person who knows what’s going on with that particular aspect of the planning at all times.

Usually, the first order of business is to choose and book a venue.  We feel our show is best represented in a theatre, and these types of venues often require early booking.  Should you choose a theatre, be prepared to be shocked by high booking prices; luckily here in Greensboro, we’ve been able to use the Broach Theatre, a largely non-profit venue that rents the space to us at a reasonable rate.  Venue cost is extremely important for a benefit show, where your own costs will likely be deducted from the proceeds.  Finding something less expensive but not ideal is an unfortunate reality for many regional bellydance showcases, but it does allow you to give as much money as possible to the organization your show benefits.

Any show requires a good production staff, but staff is really important for stage shows: someone to man the lights and sound, a stage manager to keep things running smoothly behind the scenes.  Again, here we are lucky; Mimi’s boyfriend Andrew has professional DJ and AV experience and her friend Brandy has experience as a professional stage manager.  Both have been more than willing to donate their expertise to our show, but we recognize that not everyone will have access to such expertise.  One option that Andrew has suggested is to approach theatre departments at local colleges and universities and ask if there might be any students who need to build their experience by running lights and sound or working as a stage manager.  Usually, the experience is all the payment they need.

Volunteers

Self-produced shows definitely need reliable volunteers to take care of the details, particularly on show day while you’re backstage getting into performance mode as curtain time draws near.  Bellydance students are usually ready and willing to help with jobs like checking in performers, cleaning and setting up / breaking down, or manning a raffle table.  We know we can’t complete these tasks ourselves so our students have been a tremendous help in this regard (and other performers’ students as well—Cher Burke, a student of Kaitlyn Bellydance, has helped us with our show for two years running).  Since we rent the Broach Theatre for a low price, it does not provide individuals to man the box office, so we try to have someone with some show experience to take tickets and keep track of the money.  We’re always grateful to Kit Jones, a former bellydancer with years of experience, for serving as an awesome door woman, checking off names, taking money, and keeping track of the amount of seats that are being sold.  Even if you don’t have the luck to know someone as bellydance-world experienced as Kit, it’s important to find someone with an ability to work in a systematic way through the chaos of ticketing, someone who is accustomed to high-stress situations and can still keep track of things.  We also have a great relationship with Bonnie Stanley, a local photographer who snaps wonderful photos of the performances for us (and the photos we use for our flyers), as well as a local dancer, Robin Ackland, who also happens to be a videographer (and even donates $5 off of every sold DVD to THP).  Both volunteer their great services for free—we’d otherwise have to hire and pay media-oriented folk, which would greatly drain our financial resources (of which there are none).  So look carefully around your local art and dance communities – there may be artists willing to help of their own accord or other bellydancers who are multi-talented and are generally happy to help out or barter services with you.

Great Performances

When you are putting on a show for profit or benefit, it is important to remember that you need great performances by experienced, professional dancers.  You need performers who will entertain a paying audience—this is the case for any show, but especially for benefit shows, where ticket prices are a tad higher than at a regular hafla.  With staged benefit performances, student and inexperienced troupes simply won’t do. Our goal with Project Shimmy was to showcase professional, experienced dancers—not just bellydance. Finding dancers who fit the bill is a lot harder than it seems. We know a lot of great bellydancers, but trying to find ballroom, salsa, or hip hop dancers always proves to be a daunting task. Making sure that all performers are at a professional level takes more than just trusting their word. It’s very important to see an example of their work. In a world where most people have access to You Tube, performers should be able to show you a video of a recent performance.

Something else that should be noted is the word professional. This not only means that the dancers should be experienced in their chosen field, but this also means that they understand what it means to be in a professional show. They need to get their music in on time, communicate with the performer liaison, adhere to the performer’s agreement. Of course, it’s inevitable that you will have problems with getting in music and materials previous to the show no matter how hard you try.  Keep in mind that dancers usually have day jobs and other responsibilities, but be firm and consistent when asking for music, bios, and so on.  Most importantly, they should realize that they not only represent themselves, but they also represent you and your troupe and / or studio.

Audiences and Belly Dance Etiquette

If you are producing a show for the public, you have to always assume that the audience doesn’t know anything about bellydance. For non-belly dance audiences it is a good idea to briefly go over belly dance etiquette at the beginning of the show. We usually have Sashame and Xavier, two instructors from Twisted Dance and Torque alumni who are super entertaining and good with explaining this, go out and do the intro to the show with a quick etiquette lesson.  They explain what a zaghareet is so audience members aren’t surprised to hear it—and even walk them through a how to. It’s also a good idea to let the audience know when certain call outs are appropriate and when they aren’t. You want the audience (both men and women) to feel involved and have a great time. You don’t want them to distract the dancers by yelling out zaghareets during an intense or slow song.  It may also be a good idea to remind the audience not to use flash photography. Non-dancers generally have no idea how distracting the flash of a camera can be to a performer on stage.

Including the Organization

When things get tough or stressful for us in the planning stages of Project Shimmy, we always try to remember what we’re doing this for: to raise money that will help Triad Health Project continue with their mission of helping those infected with HIV/AIDS and their loved ones receive the support that they need.  It’s equally important to remind our audience of this.  We want to entertain and ensure that the audience has a great time, but we also want to let them know exactly how their ticket cost supports a great local organization.  Each year, we’ve asked a representative of Triad Health Project to speak near the end of the show about their mission and work in the community.  It’s worth it to give the organization voice not just in the show itself, but also in your advertising, if possible.  Last year, we were able to have Shane Burton, a representative of THP, along with us for a morning news spot that discussed the show, Torque and Twisted Dance Studios, and Triad Health Project’s mission.  Including the organization you want your show to benefit not only helps to put a face to the name that your show is associated with, but also helps to create a rewarding partnership with them.

For other dancers and artists hoping to use their talents for a cause, we hope that what we do can help you to plan your own event.  And for those of you thinking about attending the show—don’t think about it, do it! Now that you’ve seen a little of what goes into the planning and delivery of Project Shimmy, we hope to see you there!  For more information on this year’s show and performers, visit our Project Shimmy page on the Twisted Dance website.

By Mimi and Heather